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Dear Ladies, how are we holding up? Here’s for Ladies that have lost themselves in waiting for Mr. Right or trying too hard to be perfect for Mr. Right. Remember “No one is Perfect” and ” you look very stupid when you try too hard”. Men could be very confused and indecisive at times and so are the ladies. Although, one thing we should all put into consideration when addressing issues that have to do with what one wants or desire in another individual is the fact that “Real recognise real”.

1. Wait, are you sure you want a boyfriend? Take a few minutes to reconsider. If this was because you saw an emotional Google ad or a sweet Groupon deal, hold your horses. What’s that, a well-priced horseback ride on Groupon is the deal that triggered this whole boyfriend idea? Oh, well, um, just be sure to do a pros and cons list first, but only write cons to prepare yourself for the worst-case, yet most likely scenario. 2. Still want one? I mean, boyfriends are a lot of responsibility. You have to feed it, clean it, walk it, bop it, twist it, pull it, grab it, etc. Plus, what are you going to do if when it pees on the carpet or ruins your favorite blouse or runs through the screen door or starts following an ex-girlfriend on Instagram?

Shyness can keep you from sampling some of life’s most delicious offerings. Worrying about outside perceptions and interactions often hinders your social interactions and your options when it comes to the love department. If this is the case for you, don't worry: You can still find a boyfriend -- even if you're shy. Step 1 Narrow your scope of options. Before you get to the highly stressful parts of interacting with potential boyfriends, use your shy demeanor to work to your advantage. Use the time you don’t spend talking to observe how people you may like act, and what they like to do. This will give you an opportunity to exclude guys you have no real interest in.

1. You’re needy. You met him last weekend, he texted a few times, and now you just won’t leave the guy alone. You went from 0 to 60 in a few days. You’re already planning for next weekend. This is probably the #1 behavior that gets girls labeled psycho in the early days. 2. You like players. You say you want a nice guy, but you fall for the same lines again and again. You can’t resist the bad boys, the ones who have dumped on other women. You think that you will be different, that nabbing a player will validate your feminine powers. But the player always wins, because the player always walks.

The good news is that you've found a girl you really like and you want her to be your girlfriend. The bad news is, every time you think about asking her to make it official, you start to feel nervous, or even nauseous. You keep asking yourself, "What if she rejects me? What if my question doesn't come out the right way?" If you follow these easy steps, your question will most likely be met with a resounding, "Yes, please!"

Be a conversationalist. Don't use “canned material”, “nuclear attraction” routines, or other social robotics. The best way to make a connection with someone is to come from the heart and live fully in the moment . What you say isn't nearly as important as how you say it. Socializing is about exchanging energy, not being a wordsmith. [1] When in doubt, just say “Hi”. In unconventional strategies, in order to connect with a girl, you have to "dis-connect" with her first. This is actually making the girl take sudden notice of you and making her connect with you instead!

1. Be comfortable alone . You have to dress well and not act cool or be a try hard just be loose. Don't set out looking for a girlfriend, or you'll just end up looking desperate. Self confidence and self sufficiency are extremely sexy qualities in a man, and you will not seem like you have either of these if you're begging every girl you meet to go out with you. Look to make good friends rather than a girlfriend. This means you should talk to as many women as possible, not just girls you're immediately attracted to. Making good friends with women will help you practice holding conversations with them, as well as learning how women feel and think in general. More importantly, you'll be helping yourself feel less lonely without desperately seeking a girlfriend.

It’s said that the first year of marriage is the hardest one. The adjustments and changes that spouses encounter as newlyweds topple almost every other period in life — you and your spouse may feel stuck between the couple you used to be and the married couple you want to become. Marriage is a big risk; it can guarantee a lifetime of love, fulfillment, security and satisfaction, but it can also lead to quarrels, abuse, loneliness and divorce.

The Best Gift I Ever Received Somewhere before I've heard the saying, "The best gift parents can ever give to their children is to love each other." I've had the pleasure of witnessing the truth of this statement for over 40 years. From as far back as I can remember my Mom and Dad were a team.