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Dear Ladies, how are we holding up? Here’s for Ladies that have lost themselves in waiting for Mr. Right or trying too hard to be perfect for Mr. Right. Remember “No one is Perfect” and ” you look very stupid when you try too hard”. Men could be very confused and indecisive at times and so are the ladies. Although, one thing we should all put into consideration when addressing issues that have to do with what one wants or desire in another individual is the fact that “Real recognise real”.

1. Wait, are you sure you want a boyfriend? Take a few minutes to reconsider. If this was because you saw an emotional Google ad or a sweet Groupon deal, hold your horses. What’s that, a well-priced horseback ride on Groupon is the deal that triggered this whole boyfriend idea? Oh, well, um, just be sure to do a pros and cons list first, but only write cons to prepare yourself for the worst-case, yet most likely scenario. 2. Still want one? I mean, boyfriends are a lot of responsibility. You have to feed it, clean it, walk it, bop it, twist it, pull it, grab it, etc. Plus, what are you going to do if when it pees on the carpet or ruins your favorite blouse or runs through the screen door or starts following an ex-girlfriend on Instagram?

Shyness can keep you from sampling some of life’s most delicious offerings. Worrying about outside perceptions and interactions often hinders your social interactions and your options when it comes to the love department. If this is the case for you, don't worry: You can still find a boyfriend -- even if you're shy. Step 1 Narrow your scope of options. Before you get to the highly stressful parts of interacting with potential boyfriends, use your shy demeanor to work to your advantage. Use the time you don’t spend talking to observe how people you may like act, and what they like to do. This will give you an opportunity to exclude guys you have no real interest in.

1. You’re needy. You met him last weekend, he texted a few times, and now you just won’t leave the guy alone. You went from 0 to 60 in a few days. You’re already planning for next weekend. This is probably the #1 behavior that gets girls labeled psycho in the early days. 2. You like players. You say you want a nice guy, but you fall for the same lines again and again. You can’t resist the bad boys, the ones who have dumped on other women. You think that you will be different, that nabbing a player will validate your feminine powers. But the player always wins, because the player always walks.